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Benjamin's Story
29th October 1997, 3 weeks late and after 3 inductions (gel) but
no drugs, Benjamin Banthorpe finally emerged weighing in at a hefty
10lbs 10oz. He was beautiful and scored 9/10 on the apgar scale.
Whilst fully breast-fed, Ben thrived and put on weight - a cute,
content, chubby cherub. But he didn't DO very much. He was too easy
really... too happy. I noticed that he did not raise his head to
suckle and that his fingers were very floppy and would bend right
back and get tangled up in my clothing. His startle-reflex was very
exaggerated and continued way beyond the norm. Loud noises upset
Ben.
Just after Ben's first birthday, the paediatric consultant at
our hospital announced that Ben had cerebral palsy; spastic quadriplegia
and from that moment we were hurled into a strange new world full
of specialists, therapists, gadgets and equipment.
Our life was packed with appointments and visits and endless forms
to fill in; special needs groups; Musical Keys; Opportunity Group;
School for Parents; Champ; our Link Carer; our Homestart Carer;
our Crossroads Carer. All kept Ben highly amused but his little
body was steadily growing scrawnier and stiffer. The beginnings
of speech halted, he ate a healthy and varied diet yet he now looked
puny and his facial expressions were limited as was all of his motor
skills. Cerebral palsy had altered him in only a few months.
For the next 3 years the heartbreak continued with a few shafts
of light when we tried new and hopeful therapies but all were short-lived.
Then…..ALLELUYAH! Our long and winding road of searching
led us to
East Grinstead (via Hungary and lots of loving people along the
way) and into the healing hands of Linda Scotson.
DIAPHRAGMS RULE OK!
Benjamin is now 5 years old and was described by the NHS as being
moderately to severely affected with cerebral palsy in all four
limbs with feeding difficulties and not expected to communicate
using speech, not expected to do much really without a gadget of
some sort to help. Yet the reality after 6 months of TST is very
different and the future is much rosier...
Benjamin can...
- Stay awake all day long - stay asleep all night long.
- Sit at family table on a booster seat with only a waist strap.
- Eat anything and everything; raw carrot, small cube of meat,
nuts, crisps, de-stones olives using only lips, tongue and teeth!!!
- Digest and metabolise the copious amounts of food he now demands.
- Drink from any receptacle and can use a straw.
- Swim for hours in a rubber ring (manages a few strokes in arm-bands).
- Kneel on his heels and play with his toys or turn pages of book.
- Talk the hind legs off a donkey.
- Chant, sing, tell jokes, tease, shout, swear, use slang, swish
and spit, purse lips, blow saliva bubbles, speak French "womage
way" = fromage frais and says poppadom perfectly.
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